There is a saying, I believe...

[ oh yeah, they're all feeling like shit, in their different ways. but that's why he says - ]

Suffering is not a competition. [ still, gentle, but a little wry. ] And I think that, when you're hurting, even though it has not directly affected you, it is only a sign of empathy.

But I would be glad to offer a distraction. Is there something that works best for you?